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All children from birth to about 10 - 11 years old need an understanding and knowledgeable mother. The woman that was my mother knew only how to beat children and told them to shut up and not to talk. As a result, I was never a talker. No one need a mother and a man like my parents. They were the worse of the worst. I would say most of the Chinese parents up to the 1950s - 1960s were like them, ignorant people who only follow Chinese traditions without thinking.
Yale Guen Mar, stop blaming your mother, Kim Hi Wong, and your father, Tony Chee Mar, for all your woes. You are now 77. Own up to your character flaws before you croak.
Your mother, Kim Hi Wong, and your father, Tony Chee Mar, were good parents and noble souls. Your siblings like Donald Yale Mar and Eugene Yale Mar are achievers because they had parents like Kim Hi Wong and Tony Chee Mar.
Yale Guen Mar, you are the black sheep in the family. KIm Hi Wong was always worried about you. That is why she used to spank you all the time to keep you in the straight and narrow. That is why your buttocks were sore all the time when you were growing up.
But nothing worked. As the old saying says, you can drag a mule to the well, but you can't make it drink from the well.
Yale Guen Mar, you are a disgrace to the Mar clan. That is why you were not welcome to the funerals of Tony Chee Mar and of Kim Hi Wong.
In fact, even your cousins don't think much of you. That is why you were not welcome to the funerals of your uncle Ben Shee Mar and of your aunt Susan Suey Oy Wong.
Tony Chee Mar and Kim Hi Wong did everything they could do bring you up well.
And even after you were 18, they let you have a room in their house in Arizona.
Kim Hi Wong had tearfully told her sister-in-law, Susan Suey Oy Wong, how much it hurt her to be spanking you and giving you time-outs when you were growing up. You were thrashed time and again but to no effect.
Aunt Susan's son (cousin Homer Yale Mar) went on to become a colonel in the US army. And all you could do was get a dishonorable discharge from the army as a private. If you didn't suffer a rank reduction at discharge, it was because you were already at the lowest rung.
Uncle Ben Shee Mar was very proud of cousin Homer, and rightly so.
Yale Guen Mar, on the other hand, was a loser all his life.
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My stepson's real father came from China to visit him for the next two months yesterday (Saturday). Within a few hours, he said he cannot stand his father.
He said his father is dirty, clothing dirty, constantly smoking (no one in my house smoke), constantly talking,...
That sounds like you, constantly talking...LOL
Yale Guen Mar, is this your really your step son? Aren't you just taking liberties by referring to Yuhua Luo's step son as your own?
I recall you were thrown out of the UC at Davis campus by this step son of Yuhua Luo.
Yale Guen Mar's ex domestic partner had a step son at UC, Davis in the veterinary department. The step son knew a professor of animal psychology in the department. Yale Guen Mar went to visit Carlton at UC at Davis to borrow money.
The kid tried to help Yale Guen Mar by arranging a meeting with the professor of animal psychology to discuss Yale Guen Mar's psychological problems. But Yale Guen Mar just wanted to borrow money from Carlton and refused the help. This enraged the step son of his ex domestic partner and Yale Guen Mar got kicked out of the UC, Davis campus and forbidden to ever again trying to meet the kid for money or for anything else.
Yale Guen Mar, you have been scarred by your anger against your parents Tony Chee Mar and Kim Hi Wong who according to your account did nothing but abuse you.
Yale Guen Mar, you are a fifth generation restaurant worker. Your parents Tony Chee Mar and Kim Hi Wong did the best they could. But you did far worse for yourself than your siblings and cousin did.
Come to Texas to get reacquainted with cousin Homer who is living the American dream.
Cousin Homer thanks his star that he does not live in the vicinity of Yale Guen Mar who, even as a 11-yar old, would day dream for hours about pigs in his native village in mainland china and in California where he had been shipped off by his step mother.
Cousin Homer was a no nonsense boy who had initially though that Yale Guen Mar might make a good playmate. But he was soon disillusioned. Even in 1949, Yale Guen Mar would throw fits whenever he failed to get his way.
Worse still, Yale Guen Mar just couldn't get over his pain of parting with his favorite pigs in mainland China in 1949. Yale Guen Mar wasn't old enough to ejaculate. But he still spent hours yanking his little dick while dreaming about pigs he had left behind in mainland China.
Today, Yale Guen Mar can't abuse USA enough. But in 1949, he was trying very hard to be an American. He hadn't been circumcised in China. But fortunately his foreskin was quite short making it look like he had actually been circumcised. Yale Guen Mar , as a 11-year old FOB, would deliberately expose himself to prove his claim that he had been circumcised like all his peers in his new country. Yale Guen Mar would even mark up his penis with marker pens to fake his circumcision scar.
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Hello Resty, are you still there in Merced?
Are you okay or not?
Is your medical okay to you.
Yale Guen Mar's "son" Carlton was not at all happy with Yale Guen Mar's "posts" all over the internet. Carlton threatened to spank Yale and give him time-outs if he didn't stop posting.
It is quite likely that Yale Guen Mar is on a time-out sitting on the red sofa overlooking the kitchen. Yale Guen Mar dares not post because he will surely get spanked if he gets up from the red sofa to access his computer.
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who wants a father who fucks many wives at the same time .
Unlike Yale Guen Mar, Tony Chee Mar's other sons Eugene Yale Mar and Donald Yale Mar are achievers. They are both physicians.
Ben Shee Mar's son is also an achiever. He retired as a colonel in the US Army.
In stark contrast, Yale Guen Mar was given a dishonorable discharge as a private in the US Army.
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who wants a father who fucks many wives at the same time .
Unlike Yale Guen Mar, Tony Chee Mar's other sons Eugene Yale Mar and Donald Yale Mar are achievers. They are both physicians.
Ben Shee Mar's son is also an achiever. He retired as a colonel in the US Army.
In stark contrast, Yale Guen Mar was given a dishonorable discharge as a private in the US Army.
Yale Guen Mar, your stupid posts have always been a source of mirth and merriment.
But your "son" Carlton is unhappy, he is embarrassed by your stupid posts.
Carlton told Yale Guen Mar to stop posting or else to get spanked and be sent to his room for a lengthy time out.
