Mike the Kiwi
2003-09-15 10:13:20 UTC
This is a very personal problem, but I need to share it to find a solution to it, so here goes:
Many years ago whilst I was living and working in Perth I was involved with a licentious Christian woman who was in the same
church as me. I allowed myself to be seduced by her and we slept together on a number of occasions but because of the
Christian faith I was following at the time and the subsequent guilt I felt from sleeping with her I had a fit of
righteousness and swore a curse upon myself in god's name that I would forfeit my life if I ever slept with another woman
outside of marriage.
Well you gotta know that since then (1989) there have been several different women, but if I look back over the whole
sequence of my life since that time I can see definite areas where change in the negative sense has occurred almost
immediately after I have slept with each different woman very early on in each new relationship.
As a consequence I have never been able to become fully involved in a long term romantic relationship and I feel that I have
missed out on much in my life.
I know that death, per se, does not exist and I see therefore that the curse I placed on myself caused the forfeiture of my
"life" in different forms inasmuch as the life I have been living or trying to develop has been removed from me (or
forfeited).
So the obvious question at this time is:
Does the reader think or believe that there is any way I can break, reverse, change, or otherwise this self appointed curse
from my life at this stage, and if so then how would I go about doing this??
I appreciate any and all help in overcoming this obstacle in my life, if you would like to email me directly rather than post
to the group (either is fine) then send to
mike the kiwi @ snap . net . nz (remove spaces to email)
Thanks again
Mike the Kiwi
Many years ago whilst I was living and working in Perth I was involved with a licentious Christian woman who was in the same
church as me. I allowed myself to be seduced by her and we slept together on a number of occasions but because of the
Christian faith I was following at the time and the subsequent guilt I felt from sleeping with her I had a fit of
righteousness and swore a curse upon myself in god's name that I would forfeit my life if I ever slept with another woman
outside of marriage.
Well you gotta know that since then (1989) there have been several different women, but if I look back over the whole
sequence of my life since that time I can see definite areas where change in the negative sense has occurred almost
immediately after I have slept with each different woman very early on in each new relationship.
As a consequence I have never been able to become fully involved in a long term romantic relationship and I feel that I have
missed out on much in my life.
I know that death, per se, does not exist and I see therefore that the curse I placed on myself caused the forfeiture of my
"life" in different forms inasmuch as the life I have been living or trying to develop has been removed from me (or
forfeited).
So the obvious question at this time is:
Does the reader think or believe that there is any way I can break, reverse, change, or otherwise this self appointed curse
from my life at this stage, and if so then how would I go about doing this??
I appreciate any and all help in overcoming this obstacle in my life, if you would like to email me directly rather than post
to the group (either is fine) then send to
mike the kiwi @ snap . net . nz (remove spaces to email)
Thanks again
Mike the Kiwi