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!!! 'uncaring, sad f*ck of a father' !!! MATTHES Speaks
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Boy From The Gorbals
2008-07-22 16:48:43 UTC
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You just can't make up your mind, can you? In a previous post you say
I have no business sense and I'm a complete failure and live a
miserable life etc. In another post you say I'm hiding wealth! Please
make your mind up. You see Dave, you're an accountant and all your
life you have been paid to hide people's wealth so your brain now
thinks everybody is like that. There are some pretty basic living
people about if you just take a look around you but that will hit you
in the face pretty soon.

Papadave wrote...
- I like your picture of the girl with her pretend shop made out of a
box.


http://www.jamd.com/search?assettype=g&assetid=3381764&text=glasgow+gorb
als+florence

Look closely and you'll see the handle on the side for the refuse
collector to pick it up. It's not a box but a refuse bin!

Papadave
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Your thinking in the right direction.
I looked into home schooling several months ago. My wife has got 2
kids 12 & 15 living in the UK with their uncaring, sad f*ck of a
father.
Home schooling in the UK is increasingly popular due to falling
standards, discipline, etc, etc evidenced by the poor exam
achievements. Something like 200,000 kids are schooled at home; the
academic subjects are supplemented by out-of-school sports/social
clubs and activities where the kids can interact with their peers. All
course books and computer aided teaching material (kids love
computers, don't they?) can be ordered over the internet following the
national curriculum from primary level to GCSE O/A level. Kids will
need some adult guidance at home though.
20 hours tuition per week is all they really get in schools and
without the personal attention.
Unfortunately, the Thai education system is poorly funded so not
recommended (I teach at one, out of love not money). I do however
notice that the local Catholic school seems to be more disciplined and
turns out better students. My (Buddhist) wife went to a Catholic
school in Bangkok 30+ years ago and believe me she's smart - well she
found me!

Huh??? So, I'm a sad fuck of a father who has looked after his kids on
his own since his wife left him for a rich man on the 3rd of January
2003. His wife being Apinya Sarakul of course! How dare you David
Matthes???

Yeah and she's ripping you off... P-L-O-N-K-E-R
When did you get married then? Did you marry her before she got
divorced?
Boy From The Gorbals
2008-07-22 18:24:14 UTC
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Papadave
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j***@gmail.com
2008-07-25 05:15:06 UTC
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Post by Boy From The Gorbals
When did you get married then? Did you marry her before she got
divorced?
More than just a girlfriend, a partner? yes but this is not always
understood.
Far easier to say wife.
Once (twice in your case) bitten twice shy, do you agree?
Charlie
2008-07-25 19:45:45 UTC
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Hello people.

Its been a long time since I have visited here but i am getting the jitters
and need to ask a few questions.

Overview
2 kids.... (no contact)

I know about all the getting stuff in writing, refusing to give my phone
number, etc

Been on CS1, then they migrated me over to the new system when the claim
came in for my 2nd child..

My last conversation with csa, I Rang them up, asked for a new payment
shedule (as I pay by standing order) they said i was "Stuck" meaning they
would have to do a manual payment schedule...

I didnt get a schedule a week later I rang them again....

Still nothing, so I asked how much I should be paying

They told me to pay a (£90 higher a month) fixed figure until someone gets
to fixing my account ...

I have been paying this new higher figure every month by standing order
without fail
(although have had a very small pay rise about 6 months ago)

This was about a year ago...

What I am woried about is
- Even though I have requested this payment schedule can they backdate
it?
- Is this limited to 6 months as it is a csa mess up?
- Why is it taking so long for them to sort this out, I dont mind paying
for my kids, but I do mind being charged arrears, etc for
someone elses mistakes.....

Like you all, if they take even more, I will not be able to afford to live.
Its as simple as that.

Constructive replies appreciated, stuff like "they are money grabbing
bastards that will stop at nothing" I know about, I've been there, I've had
2 jobs just to pay their payments and lost my car, and everything in my
house just to stay on top...

I need answers so I am prepared for when this happens...

I am sure I read somewhere in a charter if its admin error, its 6
months.... but you guys may know more, its been a while and its shit to be
back.

Thanks for your help
Charl
Fletcher
2008-07-25 20:15:24 UTC
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They are a law unto themselves, basically they do as they please, its taking
so long because your paying and they are useless incompetents but if they
deem your in arrears, you'll be in areas. There is no argument, yes you can
complain it's their fault but they'll still take the cash and your denied
the justice of arguing this in a court of law. You can only use the appeals
procedure.

If you intend paying get it sorted as soon as... write and copy your MP, if
their response isn't what you expect go visit your MP

If you're on CS2 you can work out what you should be paying! 15% 20% 25% 1,
2, 3 or more kids
Post by Charlie
Hello people.
Its been a long time since I have visited here but i am getting the
jitters and need to ask a few questions.
Overview
2 kids.... (no contact)
I know about all the getting stuff in writing, refusing to give my phone
number, etc
Been on CS1, then they migrated me over to the new system when the claim
came in for my 2nd child..
My last conversation with csa, I Rang them up, asked for a new payment
shedule (as I pay by standing order) they said i was "Stuck" meaning they
would have to do a manual payment schedule...
I didnt get a schedule a week later I rang them again....
Still nothing, so I asked how much I should be paying
They told me to pay a (£90 higher a month) fixed figure until someone gets
to fixing my account ...
I have been paying this new higher figure every month by standing order
without fail
(although have had a very small pay rise about 6 months ago)
This was about a year ago...
What I am woried about is
- Even though I have requested this payment schedule can they backdate
it?
- Is this limited to 6 months as it is a csa mess up?
- Why is it taking so long for them to sort this out, I dont mind paying
for my kids, but I do mind being charged arrears, etc for
someone elses mistakes.....
Like you all, if they take even more, I will not be able to afford to
live. Its as simple as that.
Constructive replies appreciated, stuff like "they are money grabbing
bastards that will stop at nothing" I know about, I've been there, I've
had 2 jobs just to pay their payments and lost my car, and everything in
my house just to stay on top...
I need answers so I am prepared for when this happens...
I am sure I read somewhere in a charter if its admin error, its 6
months.... but you guys may know more, its been a while and its shit to be
back.
Thanks for your help
Charl
Charlie
2008-07-26 17:03:49 UTC
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Thanks for the info

I guess I'm as screwed now as I was when it all started.
Post by Fletcher
They are a law unto themselves, basically they do as they please, its
taking so long because your paying and they are useless incompetents but
if they deem your in arrears, you'll be in areas. There is no argument,
yes you can complain it's their fault but they'll still take the cash and
your denied the justice of arguing this in a court of law. You can only
use the appeals procedure.
If you intend paying get it sorted as soon as... write and copy your MP,
if their response isn't what you expect go visit your MP
If you're on CS2 you can work out what you should be paying! 15% 20% 25%
1, 2, 3 or more kids
Post by Charlie
Hello people.
Its been a long time since I have visited here but i am getting the
jitters and need to ask a few questions.
Overview
2 kids.... (no contact)
I know about all the getting stuff in writing, refusing to give my phone
number, etc
Been on CS1, then they migrated me over to the new system when the claim
came in for my 2nd child..
My last conversation with csa, I Rang them up, asked for a new payment
shedule (as I pay by standing order) they said i was "Stuck" meaning they
would have to do a manual payment schedule...
I didnt get a schedule a week later I rang them again....
Still nothing, so I asked how much I should be paying
They told me to pay a (£90 higher a month) fixed figure until someone
gets to fixing my account ...
I have been paying this new higher figure every month by standing order
without fail
(although have had a very small pay rise about 6 months ago)
This was about a year ago...
What I am woried about is
- Even though I have requested this payment schedule can they backdate
it?
- Is this limited to 6 months as it is a csa mess up?
- Why is it taking so long for them to sort this out, I dont mind
paying for my kids, but I do mind being charged arrears, etc for
someone elses mistakes.....
Like you all, if they take even more, I will not be able to afford to
live. Its as simple as that.
Constructive replies appreciated, stuff like "they are money grabbing
bastards that will stop at nothing" I know about, I've been there, I've
had 2 jobs just to pay their payments and lost my car, and everything in
my house just to stay on top...
I need answers so I am prepared for when this happens...
I am sure I read somewhere in a charter if its admin error, its 6
months.... but you guys may know more, its been a while and its shit to
be back.
Thanks for your help
Charl
j***@gmail.com
2008-07-25 10:45:58 UTC
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Post by Boy From The Gorbals
You just can't make up your mind, can you? In a previous post you say
I have no business sense and I'm a complete failure and live a
miserable life etc. In another post you say I'm hiding wealth! Please
make your mind up.
Oh dear Alex, both statements are true in my opinion. Let me explain.
Wealth can be inherited, your father owned and rented out the tenement/
apartment building in Glasgow. Also, in your business ventures it was
much better for you to use and lose other peoples hard-earned savings
than risk your own.
By the way, do you still take your wallet with you everywhere,
including when you take a shower? Are you still paranoid, can't trust
anyone, right?
j***@gmail.com
2008-07-25 10:54:09 UTC
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Post by Boy From The Gorbals
Yeah and she's ripping you off... P-L-O-N-K-E-R
Your so right, must be because you said so, but on the other hand I'm
loving every minute of it.
Have a nice day!
Boy From The Gorbals
2008-07-25 15:20:47 UTC
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Dave, do you believe everything your told and have never actually
spoken to me about anything?

Actually I did take my wallet with me to the shower and had very good
reason to after several 1,000 baht notes went missing over several
weeks.

You're a conceited fucked up old man!

Only one way to describe you...

'A BIG GIRLS BLOUSE'

Enough khrap for today!
LarbGai
2008-07-25 22:45:08 UTC
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Post by Boy From The Gorbals
Dave, do you believe everything your told and have never actually
spoken to me about anything?
Actually I did take my wallet with me to the shower and had very good
reason to after several 1,000 baht notes went missing over several
weeks.
You're a conceited fucked up old man!
Only one way to describe you...
'A BIG GIRLS BLOUSE'
Enough khrap for today!
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