Discussion:
She just lays there "like a sack of spuds".
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Pumpkinhead
2006-06-02 17:00:31 UTC
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I saw this in an advice column.

Woman writes in:
"I thought I was good in bed but my latest fella accused me of 'lying there
like a sack of spuds'. I'm gutted. He is 26, I'm 23 and have had six
previous lovers. Our first attempt at sex was great - or so I thought. But
when I planned a dirty weekend away for his birthday, he asked me that if
when we make love I could at least attempt to move my body. I feel so
hurt."

See, women? Some of us men like a woman to put in some effort.

Columnist replies:
"Tell him off for being so rude and hurtful! Good sex is about good
communication and he could have gently steered you in the right direction by
talking, touching and feeling. Tell him you will need more loving
reassurance next time."

I guess a man's not supposed to need much loving reassurance then.
William P
2006-06-02 17:44:56 UTC
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Post by Pumpkinhead
I saw this in an advice column.
"I thought I was good in bed but my latest fella accused me of 'lying
there like a sack of spuds'. I'm gutted. He is 26, I'm 23 and have
had six previous lovers. Our first attempt at sex was great - or so I
thought. But when I planned a dirty weekend away for his birthday, he
asked me that if when we make love I could at least attempt to move my
body. I feel so hurt."
See, women? Some of us men like a woman to put in some effort.
Who are you writing too? Lm, Pnats, michaela, and pug? One of those in
particular?
Post by Pumpkinhead
"Tell him off for being so rude and hurtful! Good sex is about good
communication and he could have gently steered you in the right
direction by talking, touching and feeling. Tell him you will need
more loving reassurance next time."
I guess a man's not supposed to need much loving reassurance then.
Visi Caulk Mah Pnats
2006-06-02 21:43:19 UTC
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Post by William P
Post by Pumpkinhead
I saw this in an advice column.
"I thought I was good in bed but my latest fella accused me of
'lying there like a sack of spuds'. I'm gutted. He is 26, I'm 23
and have had six previous lovers. Our first attempt at sex was
great - or so I thought. But when I planned a dirty weekend away
for his birthday, he asked me that if when we make love I could at
least attempt to move my body. I feel so hurt."
See, women? Some of us men like a woman to put in some effort.
Who are you writing too? Lm, Pnats, michaela, and pug? One of those
in particular?
lol sex is my fav contact sport.

Some women are lazy in bed and think just showing up and lying there is
enough.

The way he said it to her was rude though. He could have hinted in bed
by saying things like, touch me all over, come ride on my candy cane
mrs santa! :D
--
My imaginary account of being in Oz
http://mspoopiepants.blogspot.com/
michaela
2006-06-02 21:49:36 UTC
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Post by Visi Caulk Mah Pnats
Post by William P
Post by Pumpkinhead
I saw this in an advice column.
"I thought I was good in bed but my latest fella accused me of
'lying there like a sack of spuds'. I'm gutted. He is 26, I'm 23
and have had six previous lovers. Our first attempt at sex was
great - or so I thought. But when I planned a dirty weekend away
for his birthday, he asked me that if when we make love I could at
least attempt to move my body. I feel so hurt."
See, women? Some of us men like a woman to put in some effort.
Who are you writing too? Lm, Pnats, michaela, and pug? One of those
in particular?
lol sex is my fav contact sport.
Some women are lazy in bed and think just showing up and lying there
is enough.
And some men just don't make a woman crazy in bed.

- Michaela
Post by Visi Caulk Mah Pnats
The way he said it to her was rude though. He could have hinted in bed
by saying things like, touch me all over, come ride on my candy cane
mrs santa! :D
--
Visi Caulk Mah Pnats
2006-06-02 21:59:33 UTC
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Post by michaela
Post by Visi Caulk Mah Pnats
Post by William P
Post by Pumpkinhead
I saw this in an advice column.
"I thought I was good in bed but my latest fella accused me of
'lying there like a sack of spuds'. I'm gutted. He is 26, I'm 23
and have had six previous lovers. Our first attempt at sex was
great - or so I thought. But when I planned a dirty weekend away
for his birthday, he asked me that if when we make love I could at
least attempt to move my body. I feel so hurt."
See, women? Some of us men like a woman to put in some effort.
Who are you writing too? Lm, Pnats, michaela, and pug? One of
those
Post by Visi Caulk Mah Pnats
Post by William P
in particular?
lol sex is my fav contact sport.
Some women are lazy in bed and think just showing up and lying there
is enough.
And some men just don't make a woman crazy in bed.
very true! He may have been a dud. lol
--
My imaginary account of being in Oz
http://mspoopiepants.blogspot.com/
Lash Rambo
2006-06-03 01:11:12 UTC
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"michaela" <michaelamackenzie> wrote in news:wJednT-
Post by michaela
Post by Visi Caulk Mah Pnats
Post by William P
Post by Pumpkinhead
I saw this in an advice column.
"I thought I was good in bed but my latest fella accused me of
'lying there like a sack of spuds'. I'm gutted. He is 26, I'm 23
and have had six previous lovers. Our first attempt at sex was
great - or so I thought. But when I planned a dirty weekend away
for his birthday, he asked me that if when we make love I could at
least attempt to move my body. I feel so hurt."
See, women? Some of us men like a woman to put in some effort.
Who are you writing too? Lm, Pnats, michaela, and pug? One of
those
Post by Visi Caulk Mah Pnats
Post by William P
in particular?
lol sex is my fav contact sport.
Some women are lazy in bed and think just showing up and lying there
is enough.
And some men just don't make a woman crazy in bed.
Well, no! Those Cat-10 cables you plug into the backs of women's necks to
control their central nervous systems are EXPENSIVE!
MrWigglesworth
2006-06-06 00:01:13 UTC
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The law of sexual performance:

If a man is lousy in bed it's his fault
If a woman is lousy in bed it's his fault.
Post by michaela
Post by Visi Caulk Mah Pnats
Post by William P
Post by Pumpkinhead
I saw this in an advice column.
"I thought I was good in bed but my latest fella accused me of
'lying there like a sack of spuds'. I'm gutted. He is 26, I'm 23
and have had six previous lovers. Our first attempt at sex was
great - or so I thought. But when I planned a dirty weekend away
for his birthday, he asked me that if when we make love I could at
least attempt to move my body. I feel so hurt."
See, women? Some of us men like a woman to put in some effort.
Who are you writing too? Lm, Pnats, michaela, and pug? One of
those
Post by Visi Caulk Mah Pnats
Post by William P
in particular?
lol sex is my fav contact sport.
Some women are lazy in bed and think just showing up and lying there
is enough.
And some men just don't make a woman crazy in bed.
- Michaela
Post by Visi Caulk Mah Pnats
The way he said it to her was rude though. He could have hinted in
bed
Post by Visi Caulk Mah Pnats
by saying things like, touch me all over, come ride on my candy cane
mrs santa! :D
--
Michaela Mackenzie
2006-06-06 07:54:43 UTC
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For the record that's not how I think.
But I think I've said that beplenty.

- Michaela
Post by MrWigglesworth
If a man is lousy in bed it's his fault
If a woman is lousy in bed it's his fault.
Post by michaela
And some men just don't make a woman crazy in bed.
- Michaela
Michaela Mackenzie
2006-06-06 08:16:53 UTC
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not being rude to you* -- just saying
that cos I know I repeat myself.

*old habits die hard... ug. since i was a kid
i got into trouble for saying things without
realising what the other person would think
i meant.

more often than not, the perceived insult was
actually meant to be a compliment.

i guess that's part of the reason i get duality
so easily.
Post by Michaela Mackenzie
For the record that's not how I think.
But I think I've said that beplenty.
- Michaela
Post by MrWigglesworth
If a man is lousy in bed it's his fault
If a woman is lousy in bed it's his fault.
Post by michaela
And some men just don't make a woman crazy in bed.
- Michaela
Pumpkinhead
2006-06-02 23:32:06 UTC
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Post by William P
Who are you writing too? Lm, Pnats, michaela, and pug? One of those in
particular?
Anyone reading, I think.
amgine
2006-06-02 18:07:12 UTC
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Post by Pumpkinhead
I saw this in an advice column.
"I thought I was good in bed but my latest fella accused me of 'lying there
like a sack of spuds'. I'm gutted. He is 26, I'm 23 and have had six
previous lovers. Our first attempt at sex was great - or so I thought. But
when I planned a dirty weekend away for his birthday, he asked me that if
when we make love I could at least attempt to move my body. I feel so
hurt."
See, women? Some of us men like a woman to put in some effort.
Yes, it was nice that she would think to plan a weekend away for them both
wasn't it? I don't suppose many women would plan a weekend away after one
night of "attempted sex".
Post by Pumpkinhead
"Tell him off for being so rude and hurtful! Good sex is about good
communication and he could have gently steered you in the right direction by
talking, touching and feeling. Tell him you will need more loving
reassurance next time."
I guess a man's not supposed to need much loving reassurance then.
I'd say that this is exactly the kind of reply one would expect from
something called a "columnist".
michaela
2006-06-02 21:46:34 UTC
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Post by Pumpkinhead
I saw this in an advice column.
"I thought I was good in bed but my latest fella accused me of
'lying
Post by Pumpkinhead
there like a sack of spuds'. I'm gutted. He is 26, I'm 23 and have
had six previous lovers. Our first attempt at sex was great - or so
I thought. But when I planned a dirty weekend away for his
birthday,
Post by Pumpkinhead
he asked me that if when we make love I could at least attempt to
move my body. I feel so hurt."
See, women? Some of us men like a woman to put in some effort.
"Tell him off for being so rude and hurtful! Good sex is about good
communication and he could have gently steered you in the right
direction by talking, touching and feeling. Tell him you will need
more loving reassurance next time."
I guess a man's not supposed to need much loving reassurance then.
If you don't get a job you could always write for Mills & Baboon
or Barbara Cartland

- Michaela
Lash Rambo
2006-06-03 01:15:36 UTC
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Post by Pumpkinhead
I saw this in an advice column.
"I thought I was good in bed but my latest fella accused me of 'lying
there like a sack of spuds'. I'm gutted. He is 26, I'm 23 and have
had six previous lovers. Our first attempt at sex was great - or so I
thought. But when I planned a dirty weekend away for his birthday, he
asked me that if when we make love I could at least attempt to move my
body. I feel so hurt."
See, women? Some of us men like a woman to put in some effort.
This is bizarre. Where did you get the idea women think men want a dead
fuck?
Post by Pumpkinhead
"Tell him off for being so rude and hurtful! Good sex is about good
communication and he could have gently steered you in the right
direction by talking, touching and feeling. Tell him you will need
more loving reassurance next time."
I guess a man's not supposed to need much loving reassurance then.
Oh, come on. A woman letting you put your cock in her isn't exactly like
passing someone in the hallway.
Pumpkinhead
2006-06-03 06:00:33 UTC
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Post by Lash Rambo
Post by Pumpkinhead
I saw this in an advice column.
"I thought I was good in bed but my latest fella accused me of 'lying
there like a sack of spuds'. I'm gutted. He is 26, I'm 23 and have
had six previous lovers. Our first attempt at sex was great - or so I
thought. But when I planned a dirty weekend away for his birthday, he
asked me that if when we make love I could at least attempt to move my
body. I feel so hurt."
See, women? Some of us men like a woman to put in some effort.
This is bizarre. Where did you get the idea women think men want a dead
fuck?
The idea I've got is that women generally don't want to put in much effort.
Post by Lash Rambo
Post by Pumpkinhead
"Tell him off for being so rude and hurtful! Good sex is about good
communication and he could have gently steered you in the right
direction by talking, touching and feeling. Tell him you will need
more loving reassurance next time."
I guess a man's not supposed to need much loving reassurance then.
Oh, come on. A woman letting you put your cock in her isn't exactly like
passing someone in the hallway.
Letting a woman envelop your penis isn't exactly like passing someone in the
hallway either.
William P
2006-06-03 15:05:08 UTC
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Post by Pumpkinhead
Post by Lash Rambo
Post by Pumpkinhead
I saw this in an advice column.
"I thought I was good in bed but my latest fella accused me of
'lying there like a sack of spuds'. I'm gutted. He is 26, I'm 23
and have had six previous lovers. Our first attempt at sex was
great - or so I thought. But when I planned a dirty weekend away
for his birthday, he asked me that if when we make love I could at
least attempt to move my body. I feel so hurt."
See, women? Some of us men like a woman to put in some effort.
This is bizarre. Where did you get the idea women think men want a
dead fuck?
The idea I've got is that women generally don't want to put in much effort.
Post by Lash Rambo
Post by Pumpkinhead
"Tell him off for being so rude and hurtful! Good sex is about good
communication and he could have gently steered you in the right
direction by talking, touching and feeling. Tell him you will need
more loving reassurance next time."
I guess a man's not supposed to need much loving reassurance then.
Oh, come on. A woman letting you put your cock in her isn't exactly
like passing someone in the hallway.
Letting a woman envelop your penis isn't exactly like passing someone
in the hallway either.
She needs to responsible for the postage, if she does that.
Mickey
2006-06-03 16:36:10 UTC
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Post by William P
Post by Pumpkinhead
Post by Lash Rambo
Post by Pumpkinhead
I saw this in an advice column.
"I thought I was good in bed but my latest fella accused me of
'lying there like a sack of spuds'. I'm gutted. He is 26, I'm 23
and have had six previous lovers. Our first attempt at sex was
great - or so I thought. But when I planned a dirty weekend away
for his birthday, he asked me that if when we make love I could at
least attempt to move my body. I feel so hurt."
See, women? Some of us men like a woman to put in some effort.
This is bizarre. Where did you get the idea women think men want a
dead fuck?
The idea I've got is that women generally don't want to put in much effort.
Post by Lash Rambo
Post by Pumpkinhead
"Tell him off for being so rude and hurtful! Good sex is about good
communication and he could have gently steered you in the right
direction by talking, touching and feeling. Tell him you will need
more loving reassurance next time."
I guess a man's not supposed to need much loving reassurance then.
Oh, come on. A woman letting you put your cock in her isn't exactly
like passing someone in the hallway.
Letting a woman envelop your penis isn't exactly like passing someone
in the hallway either.
She needs to responsible for the postage, if she does that.
What if she refuses for extra-large packages?

-M
Total Zero Rodent
2006-06-03 19:12:33 UTC
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Post by Mickey
Post by William P
Post by Pumpkinhead
Post by Lash Rambo
Post by Pumpkinhead
I saw this in an advice column.
"I thought I was good in bed but my latest fella accused me of
'lying there like a sack of spuds'. I'm gutted. He is 26, I'm 23
and have had six previous lovers. Our first attempt at sex was
great - or so I thought. But when I planned a dirty weekend away
for his birthday, he asked me that if when we make love I could at
least attempt to move my body. I feel so hurt."
See, women? Some of us men like a woman to put in some effort.
This is bizarre. Where did you get the idea women think men want a
dead fuck?
The idea I've got is that women generally don't want to put in much effort.
Post by Lash Rambo
Post by Pumpkinhead
"Tell him off for being so rude and hurtful! Good sex is about good
communication and he could have gently steered you in the right
direction by talking, touching and feeling. Tell him you will need
more loving reassurance next time."
I guess a man's not supposed to need much loving reassurance then.
Oh, come on. A woman letting you put your cock in her isn't exactly
like passing someone in the hallway.
Letting a woman envelop your penis isn't exactly like passing someone
in the hallway either.
She needs to responsible for the postage, if she does that.
What if she refuses for extra-large packages?
-M
For your oversized summer sausage?
m***@intergate.com
2006-06-03 22:22:03 UTC
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Post by Pumpkinhead
Post by Lash Rambo
Post by Pumpkinhead
I saw this in an advice column.
"I thought I was good in bed but my latest fella accused me of 'lying
there like a sack of spuds'. I'm gutted. He is 26, I'm 23 and have
had six previous lovers. Our first attempt at sex was great - or so I
thought. But when I planned a dirty weekend away for his birthday, he
asked me that if when we make love I could at least attempt to move my
body. I feel so hurt."
See, women? Some of us men like a woman to put in some effort.
This is bizarre. Where did you get the idea women think men want a dead
fuck?
The idea I've got is that women generally don't want to put in much effort.
In addition to shut in couch potato sociological experts we now also
have virgin sexperts. Some women know what they are doing and some
don't. Like with anything else, good sex is the result of practice and
experience. If any guy here ever finally finds his virgin princess,
don't be surprised if she is a dead fuck and even doesn't like it the
first few times. You can't draw conclusions about how women have sex in
general from a silly advice column.
Post by Pumpkinhead
Post by Lash Rambo
Post by Pumpkinhead
"Tell him off for being so rude and hurtful! Good sex is about good
communication and he could have gently steered you in the right
direction by talking, touching and feeling. Tell him you will need
more loving reassurance next time."
I guess a man's not supposed to need much loving reassurance then.
Oh, come on. A woman letting you put your cock in her isn't exactly like
passing someone in the hallway.
Letting a woman envelop your penis isn't exactly like passing someone in the
hallway either.
Sometimes it can be. Most of my experiences have been in the most
casual manner possible.
MrWigglesworth
2006-06-05 01:41:28 UTC
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Post by Pumpkinhead
Post by Lash Rambo
Post by Pumpkinhead
I saw this in an advice column.
"I thought I was good in bed but my latest fella accused me of 'lying
there like a sack of spuds'. I'm gutted. He is 26, I'm 23 and have
had six previous lovers. Our first attempt at sex was great - or so I
thought. But when I planned a dirty weekend away for his birthday, he
asked me that if when we make love I could at least attempt to move my
body. I feel so hurt."
See, women? Some of us men like a woman to put in some effort.
This is bizarre. Where did you get the idea women think men want a dead
fuck?
The idea I've got is that women generally don't want to put in much effort.
People in general don't want to put in more effort than they have to.
Post by Pumpkinhead
Post by Lash Rambo
Post by Pumpkinhead
"Tell him off for being so rude and hurtful! Good sex is about good
communication and he could have gently steered you in the right
direction by talking, touching and feeling. Tell him you will need
more loving reassurance next time."
I guess a man's not supposed to need much loving reassurance then.
Where did you get the idea that it doesn't apply both ways? Do you
think that if it were a man saying that his girlfriend told him he
"sucked in bed" that her advice would be any different? Men and women
are both quite sensitive about their sexual performance and a bit of
tact and diplomacy in this area is a good idea.
Post by Pumpkinhead
Post by Lash Rambo
Oh, come on. A woman letting you put your cock in her isn't exactly like
passing someone in the hallway.
Letting a woman envelop your penis isn't exactly like passing someone in the
hallway either.
Men and women aren't the same and by expecting as such you are shooting
yourself in the foot. Of course, since all of this "equality at any
cost" nonsense is a self-defence mechanism to avoid confronting your
fear of rejection, it's having exactly the desired effect.
Pumpkinhead
2006-06-05 16:17:24 UTC
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Post by MrWigglesworth
Post by Pumpkinhead
Post by Lash Rambo
Post by Pumpkinhead
I saw this in an advice column.
"I thought I was good in bed but my latest fella accused me of 'lying
there like a sack of spuds'. I'm gutted. He is 26, I'm 23 and have
had six previous lovers. Our first attempt at sex was great - or so I
thought. But when I planned a dirty weekend away for his birthday, he
asked me that if when we make love I could at least attempt to move my
body. I feel so hurt."
See, women? Some of us men like a woman to put in some effort.
This is bizarre. Where did you get the idea women think men want a dead
fuck?
The idea I've got is that women generally don't want to put in much effort.
People in general don't want to put in more effort than they have to.
Post by Pumpkinhead
Post by Lash Rambo
Post by Pumpkinhead
"Tell him off for being so rude and hurtful! Good sex is about good
communication and he could have gently steered you in the right
direction by talking, touching and feeling. Tell him you will need
more loving reassurance next time."
I guess a man's not supposed to need much loving reassurance then.
Where did you get the idea that it doesn't apply both ways?
It requires putting in effort, and effort is something that some people
don't think applies both ways in roughly equal amounts. When the man
complained about his girlfriend not putting in much effort, he might as well
have been saying that she wasn't giving him much loving reassurance.
Post by MrWigglesworth
Do you
think that if it were a man saying that his girlfriend told him he
"sucked in bed" that her advice would be any different?
I think the advisor might have been less sympathetic to a man.
Post by MrWigglesworth
Men and women
are both quite sensitive about their sexual performance and a bit of
tact and diplomacy in this area is a good idea.
Post by Pumpkinhead
Post by Lash Rambo
Oh, come on. A woman letting you put your cock in her isn't exactly like
passing someone in the hallway.
Letting a woman envelop your penis isn't exactly like passing someone in the
hallway either.
Men and women aren't the same and by expecting as such you are shooting
yourself in the foot. Of course, since all of this "equality at any
cost" nonsense is a self-defence mechanism to avoid confronting your
fear of rejection, it's having exactly the desired effect.
I hope you don't think that women are more valuable than men.

I agree that men and women are different but they are both still human,
therefore they still have a lot in common with each other.
MrWigglesworth
2006-06-05 23:58:36 UTC
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Post by Pumpkinhead
Post by MrWigglesworth
Post by Pumpkinhead
Post by Lash Rambo
Post by Pumpkinhead
I saw this in an advice column.
"I thought I was good in bed but my latest fella accused me of 'lying
there like a sack of spuds'. I'm gutted. He is 26, I'm 23 and have
had six previous lovers. Our first attempt at sex was great - or so I
thought. But when I planned a dirty weekend away for his birthday, he
asked me that if when we make love I could at least attempt to move my
body. I feel so hurt."
See, women? Some of us men like a woman to put in some effort.
This is bizarre. Where did you get the idea women think men want a dead
fuck?
The idea I've got is that women generally don't want to put in much effort.
People in general don't want to put in more effort than they have to.
Post by Pumpkinhead
Post by Lash Rambo
Post by Pumpkinhead
"Tell him off for being so rude and hurtful! Good sex is about good
communication and he could have gently steered you in the right
direction by talking, touching and feeling. Tell him you will need
more loving reassurance next time."
I guess a man's not supposed to need much loving reassurance then.
Where did you get the idea that it doesn't apply both ways?
It requires putting in effort, and effort is something that some people
don't think applies both ways in roughly equal amounts. When the man
complained about his girlfriend not putting in much effort, he might as well
have been saying that she wasn't giving him much loving reassurance.
In this context I think loving reassurance refers to being
understanding and compassionate when it comes to your partner's sexual
performance. I don't know how you can equate that with being a dynamo
in bed. You are assuming she is being willfully lazy instead of being
inhibited or just plain incompetent.
Post by Pumpkinhead
Post by MrWigglesworth
Do you
think that if it were a man saying that his girlfriend told him he
"sucked in bed" that her advice would be any different?
I think the advisor might have been less sympathetic to a man.
I don't think so, but I guess we can't know for sure.
Post by Pumpkinhead
Post by MrWigglesworth
Men and women
are both quite sensitive about their sexual performance and a bit of
tact and diplomacy in this area is a good idea.
Post by Pumpkinhead
Post by Lash Rambo
Oh, come on. A woman letting you put your cock in her isn't exactly like
passing someone in the hallway.
Letting a woman envelop your penis isn't exactly like passing someone in the
hallway either.
Men and women aren't the same and by expecting as such you are shooting
yourself in the foot. Of course, since all of this "equality at any
cost" nonsense is a self-defence mechanism to avoid confronting your
fear of rejection, it's having exactly the desired effect.
I hope you don't think that women are more valuable than men.
?? No. They are just different.
Post by Pumpkinhead
I agree that men and women are different but they are both still human,
therefore they still have a lot in common with each other.
Yes, of course.
Bernd Jendrissek
2006-06-05 13:38:39 UTC
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Post by Pumpkinhead
Post by Lash Rambo
Oh, come on. A woman letting you put your cock in her isn't exactly
like passing someone in the hallway.
Letting a woman envelop your penis isn't exactly like passing someone
in the hallway either.
You know what... I feel so sorry for you, that you feel so taken
advantage of and exploited by women, not to mention how bad they make
you feel about yourself with the expectations they have of you, even if
they shouldn't. I think you should just stick to your principles; that
way you get to keep your integrity and the moral high ground.

- --
"If you lie to the compiler, it will get its revenge." - Henry Spencer
x***@hotmail.com
2006-06-05 17:35:34 UTC
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god he's still whining and moaning?




takes a real man to inspire a woman.

of course this is why they talk like this here in this newsgroup.. they
aren't real men and so fourth they'll assume that it's the females
fault of course.


instead of realizing what the true issue is.


but self indulgent whiner bag attention whores are like that.
Post by Pumpkinhead
I saw this in an advice column.
"I thought I was good in bed but my latest fella accused me of 'lying there
like a sack of spuds'. I'm gutted. He is 26, I'm 23 and have had six
previous lovers. Our first attempt at sex was great - or so I thought. But
when I planned a dirty weekend away for his birthday, he asked me that if
when we make love I could at least attempt to move my body. I feel so
hurt."
See, women? Some of us men like a woman to put in some effort.
"Tell him off for being so rude and hurtful! Good sex is about good
communication and he could have gently steered you in the right direction by
talking, touching and feeling. Tell him you will need more loving
reassurance next time."
I guess a man's not supposed to need much loving reassurance then.
Pumpkinhead
2006-06-05 19:23:16 UTC
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takes a real man to inspire a woman.
It takes a real woman to inspire me.
Post by x***@hotmail.com
of course this is why they talk like this here in this newsgroup.. they
aren't real men and so fourth they'll assume that it's the females
fault of course.
If they're not real women, then it is their fault.
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